Reading one of Daily News and past Mayor Mel Rothenburger's blog posts about Kamloops politics today, and finding myself with a very different point of view. In a nutshell, here is Mel's argument:
Something has gone terribly, terribly wrong. We’ve gone from nasty and fun to nice and boring.
Whatever happened to the days when Betty would push Terry, Terry would push Betty, and tempers would flare?
Ah, those were good times in the news game. Betty would snark at everyone in sight, Terry would grump away at Betty and there was never a dull moment, always a good headline.
Mel is of course referring to another former Mayor Terry Lake and former MP Betty Hinton.
I thinks it critically important to be nice in politics. If we want people to work together, to bring as many people on board with a strategy or policy as possible, we need leaders to play nice. Mayor Mel Rotherburger often worked hard to do this - whether it be through initiatives like the Kamtalk community forum or bringing many community leaders behind the Tournament Capital initiative.
I know media types like spicy stuff, but I think there is also ways to make nice not equal boring. A bold initiative does not have to adopt conflict as the dominant paradigm.
After Council again floated the controversial idea of mandatory water meters, I was really happy to see Mayor Peter Milobar at my Rotary Club speaking about meters, explaining his stance, and taking any questions. He did this in a measured, reasonable way. And he walked away with the respect of many of us in that room, even if some did not agree. People were actually more open to the topic because of the way Pete handled himself.